The Trying-to-Conceive Blueprint · for women trying for their first baby
The exact plan Nigerian women use to understand their cycle, prepare their bodies, and know what to ask their doctor.
One evidence-based plan for the whole journey: understand your cycle, prepare your body, bring your partner in, and know exactly what to ask your doctor and when. No false hope, no quick fixes, and no promises we cannot keep.
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Nobody tells you how much the hoping costs.
You want this so much it aches. To hold your baby, to feel that weight in your arms. So every month you hope, quietly, carefully, trying not to want it too hard in case it does not happen again.
Then the two-week wait begins, and every small change in your body becomes a question. Is that a cramp or a sign? Should you test today or wait? And when the month ends the way you feared, you carry the disappointment mostly alone.
Underneath it sits the fear you barely say out loud. That it will not happen. That something is wrong with you. That time is running out. Meanwhile the questions come: your mother, your mother-in-law, the aunty at church. Each one is a pressure you did not ask for.
Right now it can feel confusing and lonely, and you deserve more than guessing and everyone's opinion. What you have never had is one trusted plan that covers your cycle, the tests and when to see a specialist.
You are not the first woman to feel this, and you will not do it alone.
"Every month I convinced myself I had a symptom, then every month I felt disappointed all over again. The Blueprint helped me understand what my cycle was actually telling me. I stopped guessing and finally felt like I understood my own body."
"The biggest gift this gave me wasn't a promise. It was honesty. Nobody told me I would definitely get pregnant next month. Instead, I learnt how to understand my cycle and when it was time to speak to my doctor."
Real words from real women. Experiences differ from one person to the next.
What you get inside the Blueprint
The Blueprint has five parts. They cover your cycle, your body, your partner, the tests and the long wait, and you keep all of it.
- Part 1: Understand Your Body & Cycle.
It explains how ovulation and your fertile window work, how to tell you have ovulated, and how to use the ovulation, cycle and period tools. Worth ₦16,000 - Part 2: Do Everything You Reasonably Can.
It covers food, healthy weight, sleep, stress and exercise, folic acid and vitamins, and what the evidence says about caffeine, alcohol and smoking. It separates the research from the marketing hype. Worth ₦14,000 - Part 3: It Takes Two.
It explains why conception involves both of you, how to bring your partner in, what affects sperm health, and what a semen analysis checks. Nobody should assume it is only your problem. Worth ₦10,000 - Part 4: Know Your Numbers & When to Get Help.
It explains the common tests in plain language (AMH, FSH, LH, progesterone, semen analysis), lists the questions to take to your doctor, shows what the research says about age and fertility, and names the signs it is time to see a specialist. It helps you understand and prepare. It never interprets your results or replaces your doctor. Worth ₦14,000 - Part 5: The Mind & The Marriage While You Wait.
The part no one prepares you for. It deals with the fear, the sting when a friend announces her pregnancy, the questions from family, and the strain trying can put on the two of you. Worth ₦12,000 - Lifetime access to the protected Conception community, plus an education-only assistant.
A protected room of women who are trying too, kept separate from bump-and-baby content. The private assistant answers your cycle and tracking questions at any hour, and sends you to a doctor for anything clinical. Yours for life. Worth ₦25,000 - Bonus: When There's Something More.
It covers PCOS, endometriosis, pregnancy loss and IVF. Each one is explained in plain terms, with what to ask and who to see. It points you to the right specialist care and never tries to treat these or promise anything. Worth ₦6,000 - Bonus: The Girlies app.
Add Girlies to your phone's home screen and open your Blueprint and the fertility tools from one icon. It keeps what you save on your phone, and the tools work even when you have no data. Included
If you bought each piece on its own: ₦97,000
Yours today for ₦5,700
You save ₦91,300, and it is yours to keep forever.
Tools to use with the Blueprint
Every tool here is in the Girlies app with your Blueprint, ready on your phone even without data. Use them as you follow the plan.
Enter your last period date to see your next three periods.
Period Tracker and Next Period Calculator
Private. Stays on your phone.Enter your last period date and cycle length to see your fertile window.
Ovulation and Fertile Window Calculator
Private. Stays on your phone.Tick one step you can do this week.
Trying-to-Conceive Checklist
Send him the list. He can tick each step on his phone.
His Fertility Checklist
Tick your questions, print them and take them to your appointment.
Fertility Appointment Questions
Open it and write one line about how this week has been.
The Wait Check-in
Private. Stays on your phone.
How it works
Understand and prepare
Get the plan and all the tools straight away. Start understanding your cycle and preparing your body, wherever you are right now.
Bring him in, know your numbers
Involve your partner, and learn what your doctor is actually testing for, so you both walk in prepared instead of guessing.
Get through the wait with other women
Use the protected community and the education-only assistant while you wait, and know exactly when it is time to see a specialist.
This is for you if
- You are trying to conceive your first baby, however long it has been
- You want to understand your cycle and fertile window instead of guessing
- You want to prepare your body with what the evidence actually supports
- You want your partner to carry some of this with you
- You want to walk into your doctor knowing what to ask
- You feel alone or pressured, and want women who understand
This is not for you if
- You need medical care now, please contact a doctor or clinic
- You are looking for a replacement for a doctor or a fertility specialist
- You want a guarantee or a quick fix, we cannot promise either
This is education and support. It is not medical care, and it never replaces your doctor. The Blueprint helps you understand your body and prepare it well. It sits alongside medical care and does not stand in for it. If your periods have stopped or are very irregular, if you suspect a condition like polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS, a common hormone condition) or endometriosis, if you have had a pregnancy loss, or if you have been trying for a year or more, six months if you are over 35, please see a doctor or a fertility specialist. Trying to conceive can weigh on your mind as much as your body, and if it does, reaching for real support matters just as much.
Two years from now
If nothing changes
Another month of guessing and hoping in silence. Another two-week wait spent checking every small change in your body. Another disappointment carried alone, and the same fear that time is running out, with no clearer sense of what is actually happening in your body.
Or you start today
You understand your own cycle and know when your fertile window is. You know how to prepare your body and how to bring your partner in. You know what your doctor is actually testing for and when it is time to see a specialist. You have women beside you who understand the wait, and you know your next step in each cycle. It is one payment of ₦5,700, and it is yours to keep.
From the women
What women say
Real words from real women. Experiences differ from one person to the next.
"Every month I convinced myself I had a symptom, then every month I felt disappointed all over again. The Blueprint helped me understand what my cycle was actually telling me. I stopped guessing and finally felt like I understood my own body."
"The biggest gift this gave me wasn't a promise. It was honesty. Nobody told me I would definitely get pregnant next month. Instead, I learnt how to understand my cycle and when it was time to speak to my doctor."
"I never realised how little I actually understood about ovulation and my fertile window. The trackers and planners helped me feel much more organised instead of hoping I was getting the timing right."
"Trying to conceive felt much lonelier than I expected. Most of my friends were already pregnant or had children, so I stopped talking about how I felt. Joining the Conception community reminded me there were women walking the same road."
"For the first time in months, I felt calmer. Instead of searching Google every night, I had one place that explained what to track and what didn't matter as much. That alone reduced so much anxiety."
"I spent months reading random articles online and came away more confused every time. The Blueprint explained everything in simple language and helped me focus on what actually mattered instead of trying everything at once."
Start the Trying-to-Conceive Blueprint
One payment covers all five parts: Understand Your Body & Cycle, Do Everything You Reasonably Can, It Takes Two, Know Your Numbers & When to Get Help, and The Mind & The Marriage While You Wait. It also includes lifetime community access, the education-only assistant and the When There's Something More bonus. All yours to keep.
This is the early-bird price for our first members. It rises to ₦13,700 once the first spots are gone.
Early-bird price
Worth ₦97,000
₦13,700 standard · save ₦91,300 today
Includes all five parts, the community, the assistant, the bonus and the Girlies app.
Start the Blueprint nowEducational program. Not a substitute for medical care.
No pressure
Try it for 30 days
Go through the Blueprint and put it to use. If you do and it still is not right for you, tell us within 30 days and we will refund you in full. You pay once. There is no subscription and nothing to cancel. The guarantee covers the program. No program can promise conception. If you are not sure yet, start with the fertility tools on Wholesome Girlies and join when it feels right.
Questions women ask
Is this medical care?
How soon will I get pregnant?
Does it cover my partner? Trying is a job for two.
Will this fix a fertility problem like PCOS or endometriosis?
I have been trying for a while already. Is this still for me?
What if it is not for me?
You do not have to wait and guess on your own.
The Trying-to-Conceive Blueprint helps you understand your body, prepare it well, bring your partner in, and walk this road with women who understand.
Start the Blueprint for ₦5,700P.S. We will never sell you false hope or a timeline. We will help you understand your body, get ready, bring your partner in, and feel less alone in the waiting.
Planning the whole journey?
Get all four programs and save
The Complete Motherhood Journey bundles this with the other three stages, from trying to conceive to the toddler years, for the price of three: ₦16,700. You pay once and keep all four.
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