Guide
Preparing your body to conceive
Last updated: July 2026
You cannot control everything about conceiving, and much of it is simply time. But a few things genuinely help, and they are worth starting a few months before you try. Here is what matters, without the noise.
Start folic acid early
Folic acid lowers the risk of certain birth defects, and it works best in the months before conception and the early weeks of pregnancy, often before you even know you are pregnant. Most women are advised to take a daily supplement while trying. Your doctor may suggest a higher dose for some conditions.
Eat and move well, without extremes
Aim for plenty of vegetables, fruit, protein, and iron-rich foods, and stay hydrated. Regular gentle movement helps. You do not need a crash diet or punishing workouts, being either very underweight or very overweight can affect fertility, so steady and balanced is the goal.
Cut what harms, review what you take
Stop smoking, avoid alcohol, and cut back on caffeine. Ask a pharmacist or doctor whether any regular medicine or supplement is safe while trying, some need changing in advance.
Get your checks done
A pre-pregnancy check is worth it, especially if you have any health condition. Sort out dental care now, and check you are up to date on relevant vaccinations. Look after your mental health too, stress is real and it matters.
When to see a doctor
See a doctor before trying if you have a long-term condition or take regular medication, and after a year of trying (six months over 35). These are normal, sensible steps.
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