What Kind of Mum Will You Be?

Your baby shower is coming, the aunties have advice and the hospital bag is waiting. Pick what you would do in nine pregnancy moments and find out which kind of mum you are.

Illustration of Zainab
1. Your due date is a few months away. What does the baby's corner look like?
2. What does your baby shower look like?
3. How do you choose the baby's name?
4. The aunties arrive with advice. What do you do?
5. How do you pack your hospital bag?
6. You are choosing a stroller. How do you decide?
7. Visitors are coming to see the baby. What is the plan?
8. How do you share the news of the birth?
9. It is time for the maternity photos. What do you book?

How each of your picks reads

    This is a personality quiz for fun. It is not medical advice, and it says nothing about your pregnancy or how you will parent. For anything about your pregnancy, ask your midwife or doctor. The quiz suits every faith and family, and your picks stay on your phone. Nothing is saved or sent anywhere.

    How the What Kind of Mum Will You Be? quiz works

    You will see nine pregnancy moments that Nigerian women know well, from the baby shower to the aunties and their advice. Pick the answer closest to what you would do. Your picks show the mum style you lean towards.

    1. Read one situation at a time.
    2. Pick the answer closest to you.
    3. See your result.
    4. Send it to the group chat.

    What your result means

    Your result shows the style that appears most in your answers. It is a light read on your personality. It predicts nothing about how you will parent, and it judges no choice a mother makes. Every kind of mum loves her child. The styles differ in how they plan, celebrate and protect, and many women are a mix of two or three.

    • The planner mum. You like to know what is coming. Your lists and your calendar keep you steady, and your family will lean on them. Leave room for plans to change, because babies like to surprise people.
    • The soft-life mum. You want this season to feel good, and you protect your joy. You pick what suits you and let the rest pass. Write down the two or three things you must not forget, so the soft life stays soft.
    • The hype mum. You celebrate everything, and your people feel it. You bring the energy and the community with you. Pick a few moments to keep just for yourself and your family.
    • The Naija-strict mum. You like order, you say what you mean and your home runs on a system. Your family always knows where they stand. Leave a little room for the days when the rules need to bend.

    To get ready for the practical side, try the Hospital Bag Checklist or read the trimester by trimester guide.

    Common questions

    Is there a right kind of mum?
    No. Each style has its own strengths, and a good mum can be any of them. The result is for fun and for conversation with your people.
    Can I be more than one kind of mum?
    Yes. The result shows the style that appears most in your answers. Many women are a mix of two or three.
    Does this quiz give pregnancy advice?
    No. It is a personality quiz and does not cover health. For any question about your pregnancy, speak to your midwife or doctor.
    Does it work for every faith and family?
    Yes. The moments are ones most families share, and the answers do not depend on any one religion, tribe or way of marking the birth.
    Is this private?
    Yes. Your picks stay on your phone. If you share your result, the link and the picture show your result only, never your picks.

    Where this comes from

    This quiz is for fun and carries no health advice. Read it alongside our editorial policy and medical policy.

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