Standards and Non-Negotiables Worksheet

You choose better when you know what you actually want, and what you will never accept. Tick the standards that are truly yours, add your own, and keep this where you can see it. It saves on this device.

    Guidance, not therapy or medical advice. This is support for your dating life, to help you think clearly. It is not counselling, legal, or medical advice. It saves only on your own device.

    Your safety first

    This is about choosing well, never about tolerating harm. If a partner frightens you, controls you, isolates you, or hurts you, that is not something to manage or fix yourself. Please reach out to someone you trust and a domestic-violence helpline. You deserve to be safe.

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